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how wud u feel...?

Tue Mar 3, 2009, 6:28 PM

Mood: Neutral
Listening to: DUFFY
Reading: Norwegian Wood (a japanese novel)
Watching: nothing
Eating: 3arayes
Drinking: Coca Cola

how wud u feel about being in a relationship knowing that there is no future?
is it a good enough reason to be with someone simply because he puts u in a good mood..?
do u need to keep ur current partner in ur future plans and future visions?

hmmmmmmm.....

wuts wrong with living just for today? not 10 yrs from now, not 5 days away, but for NOW?

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~freedom-of-the-seas Mar 3, 2009, 6:34:23 PM

hmm... that is a tough question.. for me, if i like being with that person i dont think about what will happen in the future

but, i guess every person is different and if someone is looking for marriage soon then he will think about future a lot

~Cantaloupeisland Mar 3, 2009, 7:13:05 PM

For me, I would say if he makes you happy and feel good, stay with him. Life has no certainties and we only have today. Don't look too far ahead or you'll miss today.

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~Retro-Goose Mar 3, 2009, 7:24:43 PM

interesting!

~Retro-Goose Mar 3, 2009, 7:25:07 PM

thx that cheered me up!

~Cantaloupeisland Mar 3, 2009, 7:49:14 PM

haha, That's great! Glad it helped some.

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*Sistyn Mar 4, 2009, 8:53:12 AM

well my dear, i've been in this position before and in fact prefer it to actually thinking ahead, because thinking about the future can mess up you and also put unneccessary pressure on the other person and yourself, and most people aren't ready to be thinking about these things. there's nothing more beautiful than living for the moment, as long as you are aware that there are consequences of your actions, then everything will be ok. though i do warn you: the reason i'm so messed up (like you saw me the other day) was because i was in one of these relationships that relied only on the present and had no future. because i got attached, or rather addicted, i am in immense pain, but i did grow so much wiser, and also, these moments i lived created some of the most beautiful memories ever in life. so i say, go for it. you never know what could happen: the future comes from the present.

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~Retro-Goose Mar 6, 2009, 6:34:30 AM

well,,, i ended it...i had to...the problem of "no future" wasnt the only one...but im feeling great

however i still believe that a relationship with a mysterious future can be a good one, actually, but the trick is to not get attached..which is so not easy

~Mr-out-law Mar 7, 2009, 6:29:37 PM

living for today can be fun , but getting screwed up later on isnt

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